{"id":7590,"date":"2022-02-24T16:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-02-24T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.weidner.com\/blog\/?p=7590"},"modified":"2026-04-30T00:20:19","modified_gmt":"2026-04-30T00:20:19","slug":"the-best-rules-to-establish-with-roommates","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weidner.com\/blog\/2022\/02\/24\/the-best-rules-to-establish-with-roommates\/","title":{"rendered":"The Best Rules to Establish With Roommates"},"content":{"rendered":"

Living with roommates is a great way to save money, make friends, and build memories! While there is an abundance of great reasons to have a roommate, there are many reasons why these relationships can go wrong. One of the most significant issues you see with roommates is a lack of boundaries. Unfortunately, once the relationship is far enough along, it feels too late to implement them. Lucky for you, we have prepared a list of some of the best rules to establish with roommates to help you get along. <\/p>\n

Don't Borrow Without Asking<\/strong><\/h2>\n
While this may seem like common sense, it's crucial to establish this boundary on move-in day. Whether it be pots and pans or clothes and socks, your roommate should ask before borrowing and respect your answer either way. <\/p>\n
Clean Up After Yourself<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Everyone has a different level of cleanliness, so this rule is essential to establish in fundamental terms. For example, if you use the kitchen, wash the dishes within 24 hours or if you use the shower, squeegee the glass after every use. When you establish rules like these, there is no more room for misinterpretation or excuses than saying "keep the apartment clean."<\/p>\n
Talk About Problems Directly<\/strong><\/h2>\n
There is nothing worse than a passive-aggressive sticky note on the fridge. If you and your roommate come across issues, discuss them face to face to avoid any misunderstandings. It's always best to enter the conversation with a solution-based mindset. Instead of saying, "You play your music too loudly," which is just a complaint, offer a solution like, "I notice you enjoy listening to your music loudly. Can we limit that to a certain time frame during the day?" This conversation will be successful because you are offering a solution, discussing it directly, and not asking them to change, but rather limiting their behavior. <\/p>\n
Establish Quiet Time<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Everyone needs some peace and quiet, but let's face it, just because your work schedule is nine to five doesn't mean your roommate's is. The hours you want silence could be completely different, and it's important to discuss a set time. During this time, you can both come and go as you please and still utilize the common space, but just make an effort to be quiet. <\/p>\n
Take Care Of Your Own Pets <\/strong><\/h2>\n
If each person comes into the apartment with their own pet, setting boundaries is essential. Just because you are feeding your pet or walking them doesn't mean you have to do that for the other person, nor should they expect it. Unless the pet is shared, each person should take care of their own pet. <\/p>\n
Implementing the simple rules above can create an environment where both parties feel happy. While rules can feel strange to discuss with another adult, they are very important and will help establish boundaries long before problems arise.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Living with roommates is a great way to save money, make friends, and build memories! While there is an abundance of great reasons to have a roommate, there are many reasons why these relationships can go wrong. One of the most significant issues you see with roommates is a lack of boundaries. Unfortunately, once the… <\/p>\n
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