Living with a roommate can be tricky, especially if it's someone you're unfamiliar with. However, don't let that deter you from living with another person. Roommates can make for great companions and even lifelong friends! Weidner Apartment Homes has a few helpful tips to guide you through some difficult roommate situations to salvage your relationship and make the living process smooth sailing.
Messiness in Shared Spaces
Are you a tidy person who likes to keep things orderly and pick up after yourself? Well, not everyone has those same tendencies. When moving in with someone, expect them to have different habits and come up with ideas to share cleaning responsibilities. The first week you move in, try creating a rotating chore chart. Although you cannot expect everyone to abide by it, it helps hold you and your roommates accountable for their household responsibilities. By showing that both parties will share cleaning duties, a chore chart can ease any tension that may arise from confrontation about housework. An essential factor to keep in mind is that a person’s cleaning habits have much more to do with their personal preferences than with any disrespect towards the shared space or you.
Taking Without Asking
Splitting living costs such as the rent, utilities, and living room furniture with a roommate can save you money. But if you’re always the one restocking the essentials like toiletries, cleaning supplies, and groceries, it can feel as though you are constantly putting money into the shared space. Before any confrontations arise with your roommate, you must keep in mind that they could be unaware that you're contributing more of the household essentials.
Another high cost to prevent is assuming something you buy will be communal and automatically split with your roommate. Avoid presenting your roommate with a bill after you make a purchase by instead outlining a list of necessities you both need and offering to split the cost.
The Extra “Roommate”
Does your roommate’s partner spend at least four days at your apartment? If your roommate's significant other is spending more time in the apartment, be clear with them about your boundaries and rules for guests. If their partner is overstaying their welcome, inquire if their significant other can not stay over as much or if they are willing to contribute to the living costs. If your roommate is willing to compromise about the number of days their partner will be over, then ensure to be approachable to the idea.
Living in comfort with a roommate means that you have to choose your battles and sometimes exercise flexibility. However, communication with your roommates is going to be critical when things go awry. If you follow our tips above, you and your roommate will have the tools you need for a great living experience!